Hobbies for a Better Life: How to Glow Up Your Confidence & Social Circle
Happy Sunday, ladies! I hope you’re doing fabulous!
So let’s get into it, I’m not beating around the bush today. We ARE making time for ourselves. No more excuses. Just like we somehow find time to binge-watch Netflix, Hulu, or whatever platform we’re hooked on right now, we can also find time for hobbies that actually make us feel alive and also not become someone's pen pal!
Now, I’m not saying you need to be outside every week like a street rat (because let’s be honest, I don’t even do that). But we do need to touch grass once in a while and maybe even touch a man or woman if that’s your vibe (respectfully, of course! No harassment, let’s keep it cute).
But here’s the REAL talk! As women, we need something for ourselves. Life can’t always be about our marriage, relationships, kids, or work. Where do YOU fit into the picture? What are you doing that’s just for YOU?
It’s time to carve out space for your own happiness, confidence, and fulfilment. And hobbies right? Of course! So stay with me on this!
Why Hobbies Are Essential for Women’s Fulfilment
If you feel like something is missing in your life, or you’re constantly pouring into others but never into yourself, hobbies might just be your missing piece.
Here’s How They Change the Game:
Expand Your Social Circle - Shared hobbies = meeting like-minded women who actually get you.
Improve Your Mental Health - Hobbies give you a break from stress, work, and mum life.
Add Fun & Excitement to Your Routine - Because being an adult doesn’t mean life has to be boring.
Give You an Identity Beyond Your Roles - You’re more than a wife, mum, or employee. You’re YOU.
Boost Your Self-Esteem - Mastering a new skill makes you feel unstoppable.
Now, let’s talk about hobbies that will have you glowing from the inside out.
Confidence-Boosting Hobbies for Women
Need a little inspiration? Here are some amazing hobbies that will fill your cup, boost your confidence, and help you connect with others.
1. Dance Classes (For the Ultimate Confidence Glow-Up)
There’s something about dancing that just makes you feel sexy, confident, and powerful. Whether it’s salsa, hip-hop, or pole fitness, dance helps you embrace your body and let go of self-doubt.
Try This: Sign up for a local class or start with online tutorials at home and get ready to shake what your momma gave ya babes! (Haha!)
2. Group Fitness (For Making Friends & Staying Fit)
Working out alone? Overrated. Group workouts keep you motivated, accountable and introduce you to an amazing community of women and men too.
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3. Creative Hobbies (For Expressing Yourself & De-Stressing)
Sometimes, you just need a creative escape, a little something that lets you unwind and express yourself. Whether it’s painting, journaling, or pottery, anything that sparks your creativity is worth exploring.
Now, listen! I’m no Picasso, babes. But I love to paint in my free time, especially with my daughter. There’s just something about it that feels so therapeutic. I grab some healthy snacks, put on some jazz, and let myself drift away from the world for 30 minutes or so. No stress, no overthinking... just me, my paintbrush, and a moment of peace. And trust me, it’s a beautiful thing and even more beautiful to try it around others too.
Try This: Join a local art or journaling workshop, or grab a sketchbook and start at home.
4. Public Speaking & Storytelling (For Speaking With Confidence)
I’ve never been a public speaker if I’m being honest, I find it downright nerve-wracking! And if you’ve met me in person or know me well, you might not believe that. I mean, I’m a Leo, after all! But truth be told, I’m more of a small, intimate crowd type of speaker if that makes sense?
That’s why I truly admire people who can get up in front of hundreds (or even thousands) and just own the room like it’s nothing. If you’ve ever wanted to step into that kind of confidence, public speaking and storytelling workshops are an amazing way to build your skills and speak with power.
Or even an acting or improv class those are game-changers too! I’m generally a confident person, but I actually rebuilt and levelled up my confidence by taking acting classes. And let me tell you, it helped tremendously. Not only did I learn to step outside my comfort zone, but I also got to connect with people from all walks of life.
Sometimes, pushing yourself into unfamiliar spaces is exactly what you need to grow and glow. So, if you’ve ever dreamed of speaking with confidence, telling your story, or even just feeling more comfortable in social settings, these kinds of workshops are worth exploring!
Try This: Check out some of these below or sign up that you could try.
Public Speaking Workshops:
- City Academy: Offers comprehensive public speaking courses designed to help you speak confidently in any situation.
- Presence Training: Provides authentic public speaking courses focusing on building genuine confidence and presence.
Improv and Acting Classes:
- The Free Association: Provides top-rated improv comedy classes, helping you develop comedic skills in a supportive community.
- City Academy: Offers improvisation classes aimed at increasing confidence and enhancing acting techniques without a script.
- London Improv Theatre: Hosts comedy improv shows, workshops, and classes, providing a platform to learn and perform.
5. Social Clubs, Networking & Travel – Because Your Best Life Won’t Happen on the Couch
Let’s brutally honest! Making friends as an adult is like trying to find Where's Wally. It's Difficult! Between work, family, and the occasional need to do absolutely nothing, carving out time for new connections can feel impossible. But here’s the truth: if we don’t make the effort, life starts to feel a little too dry!
That’s why social clubs and travel are vital!
Joining a women’s social club helps you meet like-minded people without the weirdness of forced small talk (because, seriously, who enjoys that?). It puts you in spaces where people actually want to connect, have fun, and build friendships. No awkward “let’s hang out sometime” that never happens just real, effortless connections.
And then there’s travel.
You ever notice how a simple weekend away can reset your whole mindset? Whether it's a solo trip, a girls' getaway, or joining a travel group, getting out of your usual surroundings shifts your energy completely. Travel isn’t just about new places, it’s about new perspectives, new experiences, and new stories to tell.
Join The Shenanigans Club – Your Next Chapter Starts Here
If you’re craving fresh experiences, quality friendships, and a little adventure, this is your sign to do something about it. The Shenanigans Club is here to bring amazing women together, whether it’s through brunches, fun events, fitness sessions, or even future travel opportunities (because why the hell not?).
Want in? Check out our upcoming events and start connecting with women who get it. Join us here.
How To Find The Right Hobby For YOU
If you're in a little bit of a pickle bubble and not sure what to try? Ask yourself:
💭 What did I love as a child? (Sometimes, old passions still spark joy.)
💭 Do I want to be social or enjoy solo ‘me time’?
💭 Am I looking for something active, creative, or mentally stimulating?
💭 What’s something I’ve always wanted to try but never had the courage to?
Pick one and just go for it. The hardest part is starting but once you do, you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner. Trust me!
Your Glow-Up Starts NOW
Ladies, your happiness matters okay. Your identity isn’t just being a mum, a partner, or an employee you’re a WHOLE person with passions, dreams, and interests.
Make time for the things that light you up. Start a hobby, step out of your comfort zone, and join a community that supports and values your growth. You deserve it!
Drop a comment below, I’d love to hear what you think! What hobby have you always wanted to try? Have you already stepped out of your comfort zone and discovered something amazing? Let’s talk about it!
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About The Shenanigans Club
The Shenanigans Club is a social club for women aged 30-45 based in London UK. We host regular meet-ups and events where you can meet new people, try something different, and have fun. Whether it's a night out, a new activity, or simply getting together over a coffee, our goal is to create an inclusive space where women can form real authentic connections and step out of their comfort zones.
Like to be part of the club? Join here